THE FUSE

What can we do or say when our partner or someone we love is completely unaware of how they come across to others in the world, and yet is continually frustrated about other people’s responses to them? How do we make things better when someone we care about can’t see their own behavior accurately, when they have a skewed version of themselves, and are certain they’re not doing what they’re actually doing? Is it possible to move the dial forward when someone rejects and feels victimized by the feedback and results they keep getting from the world on account of that behavior?