Psychology Today | 28.06.2026 22:05
Talking about visiting sex clubs is frowned upon in society. Some gay men enjoy visiting gay sex clubs on a regular basis, and that regularity is often seen as negative by society and loaded with moral judgments. As a psychotherapist working with many gay men, I have noticed that many of them report increased well-being as a result of visiting sexualised spaces. Within the societal noise of moral judgment, it is difficult to hear nuance in those conversations, but it is important not to shame gay men whose lives do not fit in with societal expectations.
