Psychology Today | 26.06.2026 03:20
Many of my clients have reported that a narcissist accused them of being “manipulative.” Understandably, this can cause confusion and anger when you are the target of this accusation. Narcissists tend to project: They accuse you of doing something they are doing. Remember, with a narcissist, an accusation is a confession. I have had clients question if they are being manipulative when they have learned effective communication strategies with a narcissist. You can see how narcissists create doubt and confusion in their victims and make them question themselves. In this post, you will learn the difference between strategic communication and manipulation.