Psychology Today | 03.11.2026 16:10
Don’t take anything personally. Easier said than done. This represents the second agreement in the bestselling book The Four Agreements written by Don Miguel Ruiz (1997). In it, he astutely states, "Even when a situation seems so personal, even if others insult you directly, it has nothing to do with you. What they say, what they do, and the opinions they give are according to the agreements they have in their own minds."