Control Versus Connection in Parenting and Teaching

Psychology Today | 05.05.2026 00:17
It is a scary and confusing time to be a parent. We hear that kids' mental health has been declining in the past few decades, with many pointing fingers at screens, video games, and social media. There are guidelines for "healthy" amounts of screentime, outdoor time, reading time, and more. I don't know about you, but I feel the pressure to adhere to these guidelines acutely. As in, if I'm not, then I am doing my child a disservice.