Why Asking “What Should I Do?” Is (Almost) Never Helpful
Psychology Today | 05.05.2026 01:52
When people hear that I’m an ethicist, they often present me with a scenario and ask, “What should I do?” This is a mistake for two reasons. First, you don’t want me – or anyone else – to make decisions for you. Second, you don’t actually want to be told what to do – even by yourself. What you really want is to be motivated to act based on what you truly care about.
