The First Hit: Why You Shouldn't Wait for a Second
Psychology Today | 06.11.2026 01:40
Imagine having an argument with your partner. Emotions are high, voices are raised, arms are flailing, and then they hit you. The “hit” isn’t hard enough to leave a bruise or mark. It’s not hard enough to knock you off your feet. In fact, it’s just a slight sting that dissipates in seconds. It’s just hard enough to get your attention.