Why Your Wife Doesn’t Want Sex (and What Actually Helps)

Psychology Today | 09.11.2026 16:42
Arms crossed, jaw tight, eyes on the floor. As a couples therapist, I see this man in my office all the time. He says, “I’m tired of being the only one who wants it.” When you’ve been turned down over and over, it starts to feel less like what you’re hearing is “not tonight,” and more like it’s “not you.”