Psychology Today | 02.11.2026 20:25
You never thought it could happen to you. Divorce is difficult, but losing the bond with your children is excruciating. You may be the emotionally available parent who has done the bulk of the "real" parenting since your children were born, and your bond has always been strong. Yet, your kids are suddenly cold and rude to you. They avoid being around you and refuse to tell you anything about their life. When you ask if your co-parent is behind their treatment, they become irate and refuse to even speak to you. It is soul-crushing.
