The Surprising Mistake That Keeps Many Adult Children Stuck
Psychology Today | 02.08.2026 22:37
My parent-coaching sessions all share something in common. They appear exhausted, frustrated, and confused. They've paid the rent again, covered another credit card bill, rescued another crisis, or spent hours trying to motivate an adult child who seems unable—or unwilling—to move forward. Feeling drained, discouraged, and hopeless, most assume the problem lies entirely with their son or daughter. I hear this often: How can I get them motivated? But what if the greatest obstacle to your adult child's independence isn't a lack of motivation?
