Behind Every Person Who Has Rejected Feminism Hides Insecurity and Ego Issues

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Feminism has been a crucial force in the fight for women’s rights, leading to significant social and legal changes that have shaped modern society. Women have fought hard to gain the rights we enjoy today, yet it is disheartening to observe that some women actively reject feminism. This rejection often stems from deeper issues of insecurity and ego, as they overlook the struggles of our ancestors who paved the way for their current freedoms.

Consider the advancements we have achieved over the years: the Married Women’s Property Acts of 1870 and 1882 allowed women to own property, marking a significant shift in the legal landscape. The right to vote, granted in stages from 1918 to 1928, empowered women to participate in democracy. The 1923 Matrimonial Causes Act equalised divorce laws, ensuring that both genders had fair treatment in marital dissolution. Fast forward to more recent times, the 2022 Domestic Violence Act recognised non-fatal strangulation as a crime, highlighting the ongoing need for protective legislation.

These milestones are not just historical footnotes; they are reminders of the sacrifices made by countless women who fought against societal norms, legal barriers, and cultural restraints. Yet, some women today, benefiting from these hard-won rights – and often oblivious to the struggles that secured them – choose to dismiss feminism. This rejection can often be traced back to personal insecurities and an inflated sense of self that leads them to believe they do not need the support of a collective movement.

The irony is palpable. While typing on their smartphones, driving cars, flexing their bank cards, and obtaining degrees, these women may forget that their current lifestyle is built upon the foundation laid by those who came before them. It is easy to take for granted the rights to earn a living, own property, or make choices about one’s body when one is not confronted with the harsh realities faced by women in other parts of the world. Many women globally still struggle for basic rights, living in regimes where oppression is a daily reality, and the fight for equality is a dangerous endeavour.

In the U.S., we are witnessing a concerning trend where women’s rights are being eroded, reminiscent of dystopian narratives like “The Handmaid’s Tale.” Such regression does not occur overnight; it is a slow descent, often dismissed until it is too late. The history of women’s rights showcases that progress is not guaranteed. The societal gains made can be reversed if complacency prevails.

This situation begs the question: who benefits from the rejection of feminism? Often, it is those who are already in positions of power, whether intentionally or unintentionally, who fuel this narrative. By encouraging women to reject feminism, they perpetuate a cycle of division and disempowerment. It is crucial to recognise that feminism is not about blaming men or diminishing their roles; rather, it is about seeking equality and justice for all genders.

As we reflect on the past and the rights we have gained, it is time to take a stance before oppression wins. Understanding the insecurities that may drive the rejection of feminism can empower us to address these issues collectively. We must continue to advocate for women’s rights, not just for ourselves, but for those who are still fighting battles we may have forgotten. The struggle for equality is ongoing, and it is our responsibility to ensure that the hard-won rights of the past are not lost for future generations.