Why Winning an Argument Is Terrible for Your Sex Life

Psychology Today | 17.06.2026 03:52
Mark, a 37-year-old engineer, came to therapy with a clear request: He wanted more sex with his wife, Sara. But within minutes, a related issue revealed itself. "When she challenges me, I know I'm right, and I want to win," he said, chest out, clearly relishing the thought. "And it feels good to win."