Gossip, Power, and the Stories We Tell

Psychology Today | 14.03.2026 00:33
Gossip often gets dismissed as trivial or even destructive behavior. It's something we are told to avoid if we want to be ethical, professional, or kind. But the reality is far more complicated. The word gossip is derived from godsibb, meaning a godparent or a close trusted companion that was connected to the family. Later it was extended to include close friends or companions who gathered to talk, tell stories, and share news about the community. It is only relatively recently that the word gossip took on the meaning we think of today: idle talk about others and usually negative or harmful.